Coming of age ceremonies have played a vital role in most cultures throughout history. Today, with the often-vast cleft between the youth and adult worlds, these rites are more important than ever.
For girls and boys coming of age ceremonies celebrate their rite of passage into adulthood and are frequently held during early teen years as secular Bah mitzvah or Bar mitzvah, sweet sixteen, graduation or a marking of a major achievement in the young adults life.
These ceremonies can be both joyous and profound as they welcome young people into the world of adults, and allow the passing on of knowledge and wisdom from one generation to the next. Adolescence is oftentimes a period of psychological turmoil and these ceremonies can help the young person’s emotional well-being by easing the passage to adulthood.
A Celebrant will create, along with the young adult, a dignified and fun ceremony that will pay tribute to this significant life transitional stage in a genuine way. The ceremony will reflect the personality and ideals of the honoree, and pay homage to their lives and the special, loving people that have been an inspiration and guide to them, such as family, friends and mentors. All in all, a Coming of Age ceremony will be an authentic and meaningful occasion that the youngster and their community will remember with joy in for years to come.
It is not unusual to find ourselves experiencing profound growth or psychological change when we are far beyond adolescence – a change so dramatic we feel almost like a new person. Whether that change happens at 30 or 70, a Coming of Age ceremony is appropriate to mark this life passage.
All coming of age ceremonies celebrate us as human beings at whatever stage of our lives we are in, be it youth, middle-age, or elder hood. Let us actively embrace our life experience. It is through ceremony we celebrate the art of living!